“He has changed a lot”…. does it sound familiar? We always wished for the earlier version of him. Actually the truth is, “he” has become more of himself. At first when we meet people, we see them the way we wanted them to be…and we go into our-own fantasy world or an illusion about that person. That’s why everything looks just fine and obviously its a “made for each other” situation!… But as we get to know the person more, we see the “real him”. Actually its our own failure to see the real him sooner. So if you feel someone changed, …you are looking at the more real “him”.. its a good thing, as soon as that happens, its better for you. After all we have to find the connection to real one good or bad!
Not an illusion!